My New Year’s Resolution

Each year, as we at RADirect conclude our current year’s business and begin to plan for the next one, I try to develop a new “theme” for our team to adopt over the course of the coming year. This year, I chose the following theme: ‘Commitment’. In doing so, I found the following definition particularly useful:
“Commitment: The act of binding yourself (intellectually or emotionally) to a course of action.”
The reason that I choose a theme to begin with is that it helps me think about what I’d like to accomplish. I then translate a concept into more defined and feasible actions.
Each one of us holds many roles in his or her life. For instance, in my personal life, I am a husband, a father, a son, a grandchild (my grandma just turned 96!), a friend, a community member, and so forth. In my professional life, I am a leader, a manager, a mentor, a motivator, an employee, a colleague, etc. And of course, there’s always the role of ‘I’ myself...
The question we may ask is, “How can one better bind himself to each of the courses these various roles require?” Is it even feasible (hey, only 24 hours in a day last time I checked!)? Does it make sense?
I believe that as long as your roles don’t contradict each other, they will actually complement each other. The stronger you are in each of your roles, the more you will grow as a person and the more successful you will be in your other roles. Let me give you some examples:
• If I am more successful in my professional roles and feel better about my accomplishments, wouldn’t that make them more meaningful? Wouldn’t that help me secure the financial future of my family?
• If I have a good relationship with my wife, wouldn’t that make me a better model for my kids? Wouldn’t that make me a happier person in life? Wouldn’t that impact my professional roles for the better?
• If I am a better model for my team, wouldn’t that make my ‘I’ go higher? Wouldn’t that improve the rest of my roles?
I am pretty sure you get the picture (I mean ‘my picture’). All of our roles involve varying degrees of interdependence, and your ability to be truly committed to more of your life’s roles will increase, not impede, your overall success and happiness.
Another aspect of commitment that I think often gets distorted is the idea that to take on more commitments, we need to do more work. This isn’t always the case. In my view, a commitment to something doesn’t mean that you have to do everything yourself. You can always rely on colleagues, friends, family members or whatever other means you may have available (did I mention outsourcing?).
Commitment entails your own responsibility to the course of action, and perhaps also its outcome. But you don’t necessarily have to personally take on all of the activities associated with reaching the outcome.
So there you go, my colleagues, partners, customers, prospects, family, friends - and whoever else may be reading this post-
My resolution this New Year is to be more COMMITTED!
Happy New Year!
Uri
